INTROSPECTION- "open heart"

What does it mean to have a” OPEN HEART” ? Is it just warm welcoming or humble beahviour? Or something beyond what it actually mean ? I got struck at this article, this was an article published in the esteemed hindu daily. I read it and read for four times , still i cannot find what it actually meant . But i want to explain and add tadbit of my understanding it would be tangible.

What the author want to explain is about the modern realtionship and how fast and quick-witted they are? I can definitely say there is a intercept change in what our parents feel about relationship to what we feel today. It is really substantial today nothing is as real as it should be. If i come to this OPEN HEART it is quite catchy and somewhat interesting . The writer of this article expalins in this way, he was travelling using public transport ,and there he found a old lady sitting with her brolly and handbag. He sat beside her and the bus continued to move. The lady then quickly made the speech . She told the author with a smile that reached her eyes  that she under went a open heart surgery recently. The author was quelled with her line. He quickly asked about her what she meant then the old lady explained that she realized how modern realtions are and opened her heart to see everything. An open heart is perhaps simply accepting what we are really. Many of us play act a lot to be others , but being ourself with no facade is eternal . All the shortcomigs revenges and animosites , altercations , everything is ephimeral .

In order to be someone we lose our really identity and that leads nowhere? Why try to be someone else be yourself and selfrespect is ultimate. When you are not firm in youre ideas than obvious thing is you cannot stand by them . Fix something in youre mind but when youre fixing or aiming for some success chose the modest way possible . Don’t set unpractical goals, be grounded to what you affirm and aspir to do. That is the only way to keep youre identity alive. If you change according to others will you will never identify yourself but instead you are really degenerating some of youre innate abilites. To reach the set targets you stand by yourself. Belief is the basic fundamental element in success or in realations. But most of the times we are offended by failure or lionized by sucess , these two are exteemites and i bet none of them will ever work to succeed in reality. Nurture youre goals , don’t loose confidence by failures . Another most important thing is many of us are not willing to change  with times . Changing with times is entirely diffirent from chaniging yourself. Opening youre windows of mind is important , we should accept the change but should not be swept away by that . We fight with ourselves and build unnecessary boundaries which make us incompetent.

Try to break the boundaries that you set and build them so strongly that no one can break except you… Think out of the box. ….